Intentions and Expectations

         Reading an article by Michelle Missagieh this week, I came upon the idea of the three greatest human fears.
      While the article had nothing whatsoever to do with Numerology, I recognized that the fears Missagieh was addressing are very real, and that working with a Numerology chart is one way to overcome them.

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     Our first greatest fear, according to Missagieh, is that those we deeply love and care about won’t ever really get us.
    My 34 years of experience with Numerology have taught me how a chart can reveal the Sacred Contracts which we have made with numerous other people. These are agreements we made before we arrived in the Human Experience. We belong to a community which arranged to assist each other in the multitude of teachings which direct and enhance Life.
    Our DNA families, everyday contacts, and casual acquaintances are all members of this community. There are entities who have all committed to meeting and having an impact on one another. Even our feelings of disconnexion contribute to our Soul Growth, and the actions that led to the feeling have been provided by someone who, on the Spiritual level, really gets us, and our intentions.
    The second greatest fear is the concern that we don’t have the skills to make a difference in the world. 
    A full Numerology Chart is a veritable treasure trove of information about talents that we have carried with us into our lives. A chart contains tables that show which energies are supported in our lives. It is true that any given individual will have some, and not all, skills. Trying to force progress in an unsupported direction will be frustrating.
    Examining the strengths that show up in their Numerology chart might reveal ‘natural’ inclinations. Perhaps, underneath futile attempts to become a computer programmer, there is an intention in place for success in botany or nursing or electronics. The advantage to shifting focus becomes obvious. This is how we utilize our intentions: by not forcing anything, by allowing Life to unfold naturally and lead us.
    Our third deep fear is described by Missagieh thus: “When put to the test, I don’t think I can actually do what others want of me, I’m scared I won’t fulfill my destiny in life, be the person I’m meant to be, change for the better, or even live up to even my own hopes and dreams for myself.”
    This description contains two important ideas: fear that we cannot live up to the expectations of others, and fear that we cannot live up to our own.
    A Numerological profile is a guide to Cosmic information complied from the most individual information. I use your date of birth, and your full name – as it was at birth – in order to create a chart. The result is a very personal document, which cannot, and does not, apply to any other soul.

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The very foundation of this concept means that meeting the expectations of others is not on the agenda. You have arrived on a specific day, to people who will name you correctly, in order to acquire particular learning in the Human Experience. Imposed expectations may carry teachings, and it is up to you to accept or reject the lessons they provide.
    As for the fear that we cannot live up to our hopes and dreams for ourselves, there is a Hindu teaching which advises
   “There are hundreds of paths up the mountain, all leading in the same direction, so it doesn’t matter which path you take.”

    We make choices, we change directions, we do the best we can with the information at hand. We are never wrong.
    There is a part of a Numerology chart which shows whether someone is inclined to be a perfectionist. I often tell people that there is no perfection in the physical realm. We came to physical life in order to expand into the obstacles and flaws and difficulties that Human Life can provide.
    Abraham-Hicks says “You are always molding yourselves into a better feeling place. And you will never get it done. It will never be completely finished. It will never be absolutely right.”
     I am confident that there are many more than three fears while we are here in the Earth plane. I am also certain that fear can be exorcised by love, and that the self-awareness that comes with a Numerology chart is one of the most loving things we can do for ourselves.

     I have been using Numerology in my work of supporting clients through change and growth since the 1980s.
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